There is a moment when neither of us knows whether to shake hands and, in the end, it's Romy who breaks the ice with a hug. It's a reminder that, in spite of all her talent and fame, she's still awkward; still the quiet one who likes to hang back and observe. But she's comfortable with that. Her power comes from finally having accepted herself and knowing that, in a world of noise, sometimes the greatest strength comes from not shouting.